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How should a married couple handle their money?

December 21st, 2012 Leave a comment Go to comments

My husband and I have one bank account, but I am considering splitting it and giving us each our own because my husband and I don’t have the same idea of "money management." If you are married, can you share what you and your spouse do? Thank you

I make all the money. (my husband is an unemployed loser)
And he gets none of it.

  1. Perfect Blonde Hot Wife
    December 21st, 2012 at 15:05 | #1

    I make all the money. (my husband is an unemployed loser)
    And he gets none of it.
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  2. Adrianna
    December 21st, 2012 at 15:42 | #2

    we both have jobs and we divide up the bills and we have separate bank accounts =] it really helps so y’all will both have money for each other =]
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  3. Ash
    December 21st, 2012 at 15:52 | #3

    Keep one checking account. Compromise on a reasonable budget and make firm financial goals for the future together. You should know how every dollar in the household is spent. Communication and working together can only make your relationship better.

    In other news PBHW is hilarious. I love mean girls.
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  4. sunshine11
    December 21st, 2012 at 15:58 | #4

    I’ve been married awhile and found that collectively pooling the money and having a limit on what you can spend without spousal approval makes things fair and shows what gets spent by who. We’ve had arguments of course but never about who’s paying this bill or who gives money for pizza out, etc. If you can’t agree on this through communication you will have more problems agreeing with the day to day expenses nobody considers once you keep your own cash. Good luck
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  5. hchavarria
    December 21st, 2012 at 16:36 | #5

    My wife and I have been together for eight years and we always have had a single account. I am usually the one to manage the account but the math is simple: Earnings – Bills – Savings = Spending Money. We never have had issues about who purchased what or about who is spending what. In fact, during the beginning we tried to have seperate accounts and it only caused trouble such as was it fair that I paid more bills since I earned more or should we split 50/50 even if she earned less, if she wanted to go to dinner who should pay for it, who pays for what with our kids….the questions were endless so we joined the accounts and problem solved ever since.
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  6. Raul L.
    December 21st, 2012 at 17:05 | #6

    Yes because the two of you are one. Therefore it should be managed as one, not as two. Communicate with each other about your account such as depositing and taking money out and keep each other informed. That’s an example of trusting one another instead of doubting. I wish y’all the best.
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